Jonah Engler says Love languages are a way of understanding how people give and receive love. Everyone has a different love language, and understanding your own and your partner’s can help improve your relationship.

Jonah Engler-There are ten main types of love languages: words of affirmation, quality time, and gifts.

Words of affirmation:

People who speak this love language need to hear positive things about themselves. They often feel insecure and need constant validation from their partner. A word of affirmation can be as simple as telling your partner that you appreciate them or telling them they’re sexy.

Quality time:

People who speak this love language need uninterrupted time with their partner. They want to feel like they’re the only person in the world that their partner cares about. Giving your partner your undivided attention is the best way to show them that you love them.

Gifts:

People who speak this language feel loved when they receive gifts. They may not need or want anything expensive, but just knowing that their partner was thinking of them is enough. If your partner speaks this language, try buying them a small gift for no reason other than to let them know you love them.

Acts of service:

People who speak this language feel loved when their partner does things for them. This could be doing the dishes, taking out the trash, or folding laundry. Simple acts of service can mean the world to someone who speaks this love language.

Touch:

People who speak this language need physical touch. They may want to be hugged, kissed, or held. Touch can communicate love, comfort, and security.

Receiving compliments:

People who speak this language feel loved when they receive compliments. They thrive on positive reinforcement and feel good about themselves when they know their partner is proud of them.

Experiencing emotions:

People who speak this language feel loved when their partner shares their feelings with them. They want to know that they’re important to their partner and that they’re the one person their partner can turn to for support.

Making sacrifices:

People who speak this language feel loved when their partner makes sacrifices for them. This could be anything from foregoing a night out with friends to foregoing a raise at work so they can stay home with the kids. It shows that their partner is willing to put their needs ahead of their own.

Listening:

People who speak this language feel loved when they are listened to. They want to know that they’re important to their partner and that they’re the only person their partner wants to talk to. Just listening without offering any advice can make your partner feel loved and appreciated.

Complimenting actions not looks:

People who speak this language feel loved when they receive compliments for things they’ve done, not things they look like. They want to be acknowledged for their efforts, not just their appearance.

Understanding your partner’s love language and using it to show them how much you love them can make a huge difference in your relationship. Try using at least one of these ten love languages to let your partner know you care about them.

FAQs:

Q: What are the different love languages?

A: There are ten main types of love languages: words of affirmation, quality time, and gifts.

Q: What is the best way to show my partner I love them?

A: Trying using one (or more) of their love language(s) to let them know how you feel. This could be anything from telling them they’re sexy to doing the dishes for them.

Q: How do I know what my partner’s love language is?

A: Try asking them what makes them feels loved. Alternatively, you could pay attention to the things they do for you and the way they react when you do something nice for them.

Conclusion:

Jonah Engler Silberman concludes there are ten main types of love languages, and each one is unique. Trying using one (or more) of your partner’s love language(s) to let them know how you feel will show them that you care about them. Pay attention to the things they do for you and the way they react when you do something nice for them in order to figure out what their love language is.